Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Nitty Gritty Question Time.

I'm going to pose a a whole bunch of questions, and honestly I love to read all of your responses. I really love to know what everyone else thinks.
I would love if you have the time if you could comment with what you think/feel/dislike etc..

Cheating.
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Is a kiss cheating?
Second/third/fourth chances?
Would you tell your partner if you cheated - would you want them to tell you?
Anything else you'd like to add feel free.

I can't wait to read :)

5 comments:

  1. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
    I don't think so. I've cheated. In my teenage days. If you find the right person, cheating is out of the question.

    Is a kiss cheating?
    Yes. Depends on what kiss I guess. I can kiss my family and my friends and don't think there's anything wrong with that. But I think you know what kiss I'm talking about.

    Second/Third/Fourth Chances?
    I don't think so. I guess it's different for every relationship and situation and the people involved individually. I just don't think I can handle it.

    Would you tell your partner if you cheated - would you want them to tell you?
    I can't live with the guilt. But I'll probably break up with them. Extreme, I know. But doesn't it just mean it was never meant to be?

    Great post! Interacting with questions is great! Maybe you could post the best comment replies to the questions afterward?

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  2. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
    Not necessarily.

    Is a kiss cheating?
    If romantic feelings are involved, then yes, even if it's just a peck on the cheek.

    Second/third/fourth chances?
    I would consider giving that person a second chance. If he cheats again then that's just taking the piss.

    Would you tell your partner if you cheated - would you want them to tell you?
    If I really cared about that person and made a genuine mistake, I would find it really hard to tell them because I would hate to hurt them that way. However, honesty is really important to me and I would prefer to know the truth if the situation was reversed, so I guess I would tell that person.

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  3. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
    I don't think that 'once a cheater, always a cheater' rings true in any sense. It depends on the situation. It depends on the people. It really depends on love ( or at least that is what I'd like to believe ).

    Is a kiss cheating?
    I would say that can only be discerned as cheating or not by what happens after it, and how each person feels.

    Second / third / fourth chances?
    I'd like to believe that everyone deserves a second chance. And a smile.

    Would you tell your partner if you cheated - would you want them to tell you?
    Being completely honest, I would want my partner to tell me. If a relationship isn't founded on honesty, just how much of a relationship can it be, right? I don't know about anyone else, but feel that the truth is what matters most, no matter how much a person may be hurt as a result. People aren't perfect. And believing that they are - believing in a lie - will only hurt more than the truth.

    Anyways, those are just my thoughts.
    Good questions, by the way.

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  4. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
    Not necessarily, I'm a big believer in circumstance.

    Is a kiss cheating?
    Again, circumstance, a drunken kiss can hardly be considered cheating now can it? But I guess it all depends on the feeling, if the kiss was intentional, and romantic feeling/sexual attraction is involved then it might be cause to consider it cheating.

    Second / third / fourth chances?
    An honest mistake deserves a second chance, but intentions are quite clear. If it were me, I don't think I could manage the emotional strain third / fourth chances create, and clearly something would have to be wrong for third / fourth chances to come about, if it's a reoccuring thing, something ain't right.
    But as they say, love is blind.

    Would you tell your partner if you cheated- would you want them to tell you?
    Honesty is a major thing in a relationship, if you can't be completely honest with one another, just what kind of relationship have you gotten yourself into?
    So based on that, yes I would want to know if my partner cheated on me.
    And, if they tell you that they cheated, wouldn't that be because it an honest mistake, because lets face it... would a guy tell you he was cheating on you, if he wanted to be cheating on you?
    As for me, if it was an honest mistake, then yes I would tell them, I couldn't deal with the guilt of keeping it secret.

    See I do answer your questions sometimes :)
    Oh and I want kitty diary back... ASAP!

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  5. Cheating.
    Once a cheater, always a cheater?

    The trust might be gone for a while, but if you can actually feel his love during the relationship, if he treats you right and make you feel extra special (and by this, i'm not JUST referring to sweet talks & cheesy stuff. I'm talking about the real substance - LOVE), then no, I guess not. He might have his reasons, whatever it is, I strongly believe once a cheater is NOT always a cheater :) IF HE'S WHAT I DESCRIBED ABOVE hehe


    Is a kiss cheating?

    Cheeks? no. Lips, yes I think it's cheating.

    Second/third/fourth chances?

    Not that manyyyy chances! The guy will so definitely take advantage of you. Second chance is okay, but I think once history repeats itself, show him who is more powerful :)

    Would you tell your partner if you cheated - would you want them to tell you?

    Yes cause honesty is the best policy, cliche as it seems. Even if the cheating's for a while, and you think like, "nah it ended anyways so let's just not bother" think again cause you're wrong. I know some of my friends hid things from their partners cause they wanna avoid arguments and stuff, but hey, I just think that's not the right attitude. Hmm gotta face the music, I guess? =/

    & the hearts all over the world tonighttttt
    bye! xoxo

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